God Knows; We all have our challenges; Our moments; Highs, Lows and in betweens but what is important is that we recognize the path we must take; The one that is best for us. In this recognition we must reach deep down into ourselves to stoke the fire. God makes us capable of this fire which blends love of self with burning desire, realistic expectation and determination to emerge successfully, YES Like the "Phoenix arising from Fire and ashes". Corny but true.