first of all let me tell you what a shock it was to hear the things you were going and have gone thru. from a real man who knows a real woman and i knew that was not you( the real u ) and it really sadden me to find out all that you endured. i just want you to know that i love and will alway be there to adhear every word that utters thru your lips from your heart. take care whitney and take it one day at a time. love real man.